Missed Miscarriage

by Mara Kawka
by Mara Kawka

 

What is a Missed Miscarriage?

A missed miscarriage means that a pregnancy stops developing in the early months, even though the body may not realize it right away.

About one in three women experiences a miscarriage in their lifetime. The reasons are often unclear.

 

What happens next?

There are different options:

  • Waiting: The body may begin the process of miscarriage after a few days or weeks.
  • Medication: Medication can be used to trigger bleeding and speed up the process of miscarriage.
  • Surgery: The embryo is removed in a brief surgical procedure under anesthesia.

 

What is the best way?

The best option is personal to you and your situation:

  • Take your time.
  • Talk with your doctor or midwife.
  • You are also allowed to seek support.

 

Every woman has the right to receive care from a midwife during pregnancy and postpartum, regardless of the stage of pregnancy.

 


"Your heart stopped, but my love for you did not."

 (Zoe Clark-Coates: The Baby Loss Guide)


Pregnancy Loss and Midwife Care

Bei Fehlgeburt, Stille Geburt, Kleine Geburt  Recht auf Hebammenbereuung
Bildrecht: Anna Hammermüller

 

Every woman has the right to receive care from a midwife during pregnancy and postpartum, regardless of the stage of pregnancy.

 

In cases of miscarriage during the first trimester at home, a midwife can also provide valuable assistance.

 

Midwives can offer care for up to 8 weeks after childbirth, and these visits are typically covered by insurance. For those with private insurance, coverage may vary depending on the provider, so it’s recommended to confirm details with your insurer.

 

Midwives also play an important role in supporting the breastfeeding process. For grieving parents, they provide guidance on choosing between a weaning pill or natural weaning, ensuring support throughout the process.

 

In Munich, the organization Hebavaria e.V. connects families with midwives and specializes in offering assistance for perinatal loss.


Stillbirth photography

Bildrecht: Magnus Borgmann
Bildrecht: Magnus Borgmann

You have learned that the time with your child after the birth will unfortunately only be very short or that your child has already died in the womb. You are not alone!

 

Sometimes you do not immediately think of taking photographs of your dying or deceased child or you are unsure about approaching a strange photographer with this sensitive task. However, parents who have photos of their baby are very grateful for them. These pictures show that the child was there, is still there in the heart, will always be there and belongs to the family.
Most photographers work on a voluntary Basis, the offer is free for parents.

 

Quelle: DEIN-STERNENKIND STIFTUNG